The list is from here.
I thought I would try and add some value to it.
1. Look at your achievements in school or at work
the phrase 'past success may not guarantee future results' is true for most of the financial markets and services, but for us - individuals - this is as good a yardstick as any.
dont look at the marksheets here, think of the times when some activity, some victory, some cause made you restless with excitement and you could barely wait to get to school/work again.
I remember an accountant becoming feverish for the volleyball tournament at work. he was vocal, creative and cheered with such passion you would think him a marketing man.
2. Identify your favorite hobbies and activities
I love good movies. I love great TV shows better. I love super books even more. But I really really love path-breaking ideas and innovations.
My hobby (tracking innovation) and the resulting activity it generates in me is irreplaceable.
What's yours?
3. Talk with friends and family members
two things I read somewhere come to mind:
a. you are the average of the 5 people you keep the most company of.
b. if you want to be something, find people who are already that and be with them.
Your current freinds and family members maynot really know the desires that you have or the potential that you possess. For me take this feedback more for negative traits than positive ones.
4. Consult with a professional counselor
its a question of trust.
if you see someone who has achieved what you dream of or has helped others do the same, you may want to consult with a professional. however most counselors in schools and colleges are as limited in their outlook as the parents.
here are some leads (I have not worked with them and neither do I endorse them) http://www.parivarthan.org/, http://ushagoyal.com/
5. Keep a journal
I do and I can attest to the power of a journal.
I have a small pocket size one for when I travel, a larger version for longer thoughts, an online one that records 5 things/thoughts for everyday & I use the my mac/phone to record a video log for the day.
Its fun, insightful (I know my memory is weakening -) ) and helps me keep ideas in one place.
if you have concerns on How Long to Form a Habit? And What You Can Do Towards It... go to http://www.myeclatcoach.com/2009/09/how-long-to-form-habit-and-what-you-can.html
buy some Butterflies Journal (Notebook, Diary)
& Moleskine Ruled Notebook Large
6. Write a personal mission statement
what is a personal mission statement?
A personal mission statement is a written affirmation of what you want to be or aspire to be.
It is a personal guiding light for you to ensure you are always on your right path.
A personal mission statement is powerful. It not only helps you decide what to do, it ensures you do not do things that do not fit in with who you are or wanting to be. A personal mission statement motivates, challenges and helps you look at the bigger picture.
I have one.
I have had one since I was introduced to Steven Covey The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
& the 8th habit The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness: Miniature Edition
This is also a starting point for my effort 7 Days To A Remarkable You. You should start here
7. Set short-term and long-term goals
Goals are very powerful.
They take a life of their own once you spell them out.
Goals should be Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Timely (see here)
I am also a huge fan of daydreaming (see here) & manifestation (see here | 10 steps for manifestation)
Sharing your goals can get you so much more. Support, Ideas, like minded people & above all wishes. click here to know more about sharing your goals
I would also suggest reading Set Compelling Outcomes For Yourself - http://www.myeclatcoach.com/2008/12/set-compelling-outcomes-for-yourself.html
8. Job shadow and talk to people in a variety of positions
My career decision can largely be attributed to a successful individual already pursuing the cause ( see I am not me any more )
My subsequent success and learning is from people I could shadow, observe, emulate and sometimes learn from their errors and omissions.
Most people would be happy to help you.
Just Ask.
9. Sign up for a crash course in an area of interest
Of course this assumes you have finally figured out an area of interest and there are crash courses in that area.
sometimes this is daunting.
some cultures, families do not look kindly at wasting time so to speak. I would suggest this only after the knowledge and support of the ones you feel responsible to.
10. Take career and personality quizzes
I took some tests myself. to see my results, click here
some sites you can try are
http://www.personalitytype.com
http://www.humanmetrics.com/
http://colorwize.com/
Prabhjot Bedi is an Ideator.
A personal success coach, professional speaker and trainer he helps people amaze themselves.
You can contact him on mail@prabhjotbedi.com
or call on +91 98720 00604
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